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You should be able to find Enterprise Manager in the menu. Use this to create your database/tables etc. visually

Medfølger der ikke en manual?

Which version have you "købt"?

Version 8.00.194 - SQL 2000

Kan ikke lige finde det tool i nævner man skal bruge, hvor skulle det ligge?

Are you 100% sure you HAVE "købt" this?
You should find it under Ms SQL Server, if you dont then re-install.

Which edition?
Enterprise, Standard, Dev..... ?

The desktop edition doesnt have Enterprise manager, but then the desktop version cant be purchased on its own!

prøver lige at geninstallere

det er Desktop jeg har, fik dem samlet med MS Windows Server 2000

er alle gået fra spørgsmålet?

then you can use Visual Basic, Access 2000/XP or any other product supporting ADO.

and as far as I know MSDE is NOT included with MS Windows Server 2000, at least not from waht I can see on their Sites.
The icon you see is more than likely just the service manager which allows you to stop start it.
Here is a link to MS's MSDE site, you should get informatin from here.
http://msdn.microsoft.com/vstudio/downloads/addins/msde/genfaq.asp

ikke for at beskylde nogen for noget, men det lyder lidt skummelt at man køber software til mange tusinde kroner som man ikke ved hvad er, bare for at prøve.

lost-sniper>The icon you see on the task bar, does it look like a PC with green arrow  on it(may be red if the server failed to start)? You should be able to find MS SQL Server through the Start Programs Menu. Then choose Enterprise mangager.
If you cant find this then you can use Access to make your databases.

Now youi have an answer, so please lets get this question closed.!

Har været ovre hos ham... han har kludret lidt rundt i det, han køre Enterprise versionen, han skulle bare installere den først *HEHE*

so lost_sniper can share out the points for his error!