Nå.. fik det faktisk til at virke med CDO :)
Dim ObjSendMail
Set ObjSendMail = CreateObject("CDO.Message")      
ObjSendMail.Configuration.Fields.Item ("
http://schemas.microsoft.com/cdo/configuration/sendusing") = 2 
ObjSendMail.Configuration.Fields.Item ("
http://schemas.microsoft.com/cdo/configuration/smtpserver") ="smtp.mail.dk"
ObjSendMail.Configuration.Fields.Item ("
http://schemas.microsoft.com/cdo/configuration/smtpserverport") = 25 
ObjSendMail.Configuration.Fields.Item ("
http://schemas.microsoft.com/cdo/configuration/smtpusessl") = False 'Use SSL for the connection (True or False)
ObjSendMail.Configuration.Fields.Item ("
http://schemas.microsoft.com/cdo/configuration/smtpconnectiontimeout") = 60     
ObjSendMail.Configuration.Fields.Update          
ObjSendMail.To = "chriskalmark@gmail.com"
ObjSendMail.Subject = "this is the subject"
ObjSendMail.From = "adr"     
' we are sending a text email.. simply switch the comments around to send an html email instead
'ObjSendMail.HTMLBody = "this is the body"
ObjSendMail.TextBody = "this is the body"     
ObjSendMail.Send     
Set ObjSendMail = Nothing