ProFTPD - kan ikke connecte fra en anden maskine

Jeg er ved at sætte en RedHat 7.1 op, og jeg vil ikke ligefrem kalde mig ekspert i Linux...

Jeg er stødt på et problem med ProFTPD. Jeg har installeret version 1.2.1 fra en RPM og startet daemonn med kommandoen:

/sbin/chkconfig proftpd on

Mit problem er, at jeg godt kan ftp-connecte fra maskinen selv, men hvis jeg forsøger fra en anden maskine på samme netværk, får jeg fejlen:

\"Connection reset by peer.\"

Maskinerne kan udemærket ping\'e hinanden på netværket, og der er ingen firewall eller andet imellem dem.

Og et andet spørgsmål, som sikkert illusterer mine foreløbige evner indenfor Linux-verdenen (eller mangel på samme):

Hvordan stopper jeg ProFTPD igen?   

Mine opsætningsfiler er som følger:

/etc/xinetd.d/proftpd
----------------------
service proftpd
{
    disable    = no
flags = REUSE
log_on_success = HOST PID
log_on_failure = HOST_RECORD
port = 21
socket_type = stream
protocol = tcp
user = root
server = /usr/local/sbin/in.proftpd
bind = 192.168.1.102
type = UNLISTED
wait = yes
instances = 50
}


/etc/proftpd.conf
---------------
# This is a basic ProFTPD configuration file (rename it to
# \'proftpd.conf\' for actual use.  It establishes a single server
# and a single anonymous login.  It assumes that you have a user/group
# \"nobody\" and \"ftp\" for normal operation and anon.

ServerName            \"ProFTPD Server\"
ServerType            inetd
DefaultServer            on

# Port 21 is the standard FTP port.
Port                21

# Umask 022 is a good standard umask to prevent new dirs and files
# from being group and world writable.
Umask                022

# To prevent DoS attacks, set the maximum number of child processes
# to 30.  If you need to allow more than 30 concurrent connections
# at once, simply increase this value.  Note that this ONLY works
# in standalone mode, in inetd mode you should use an inetd server
# that allows you to limit maximum number of processes per service
# (such as xinetd)
MaxInstances            30

# Set the user and group that the server normally runs at.
User                nobody
Group                nobody

# PAM authentication settings. See README.PAM for details.
# Use PAM for authentication.
AuthPAM                on
# The config file to use under /etc/pam.d.
AuthPAMConfig            ftp
# Make PAM be the final arbitrator for authentication.
AuthPAMAuthoritative        on

# Normally, we want files to be overwriteable.
<Directory /*>
  AllowOverwrite        on
</Directory>

# A basic anonymous configuration, with one incoming directory.
<Anonymous ~ftp>
  User                ftp
  Group                ftp
  RequireValidShell        off

  # We want clients to be able to login with \"anonymous\" as well as \"ftp\"
  UserAlias            anonymous ftp

  # Limit the maximum number of anonymous logins
  MaxClients            10

  # We want \'welcome.msg\' displayed at login, and \'.message\' displayed
  # in each newly chdired directory.
  DisplayLogin            welcome.msg
  DisplayFirstChdir        .message

  # Limit WRITE everywhere in the anonymous chroot except incoming
  <Directory *>

  <Limit WRITE>
    DenyAll
  </Limit>

  </Directory>

  <Directory incoming>

  <Limit WRITE>
  AllowAll
  </Limit>
  <Limit READ>
  DenyAll
  </Limit>

  </Directory>

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